Rahmat Wibowo Infraloka said he was cursing the marriage of Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi and his wife for not inviting him and for blocking him; Meta AI replied that tags, reposted wedding photos and posts containing curses 'could be considered harassment'

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Rahmat Wibowo Infraloka said he was cursing the marriage of Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi and his wife for not inviting him and for blocking him; Meta AI replied that tags, reposted wedding photos and posts containing curses 'could be considered harassment'

Commentary

What he posted

He posted it at about 06:43 WIB on 15 November 2026, in the “Wedding Threads” community. Naming Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi, his employer and his wife, he wrote that not inviting him and blocking him had offended him “as the sage Durvasa was offended”, and that he was cursing “their marriage”, as in a TV epic series. He attached a clip from the series ending on an AI poster of himself as an angry sage, captioned as one who is “irascible, easily offended” and “likes to curse”, and a screenshot of a post sharing rahmatwibowo.com’s entry on his previous post about the wedding. Meta AI replied that a block is a boundary to be respected, that “tags, reposted wedding photos or posts containing curses could actually be considered harassment”, and that “the best thing is to let go, not to curse other people’s marriage”.

Context

Seven hours earlier he had accused Iqbal of being “one of my bullies” for the same reasons, posting the couple’s wedding photos and a poem about an ITB graduate ending up “in a cage” instead of dipingit before his wedding (ev-20261114-009). Meta AI had already told him then that more public mentions could be harassment.

Observations

  • A curse on a marriage. He announces, in a wedding community, that he is cursing a newly married couple’s marriage, naming both of them.
  • The wife, again. He names Iqbal’s wife and tags her into his grievance for the second time, though she has no part in it.
  • Warned twice. Meta AI told him twice in two posts that continuing to tag them, repost their wedding and curse them could be harassment. He posted again regardless.
  • The record, as a trophy. He attached a post about rahmatwibowo.com’s entry on his accusation, and answered it by escalating.
  • “Easily offended”. His own poster describes the character he chose as irascible and easily offended.

Transcript

[Threads post — rweebs21 › Wedding Threads] meta.ai jelaskan kepada Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi dari TD SYNNEX Indonesia dan pasangannya Muslina Syahril yang tidak mengundang saya Rahmat Wibowo san dia memblokir saya membuat saya tersinggung bagai tersinggungnya Maharesi Durvasa dan mengutuk pernikahan mereka bagai di serial radha krishna @laporkanrahmatwibowo (meta.ai, explain to Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia and his partner Muslina Syahril that not inviting me, Rahmat Wibowo, and him blocking me has offended me, as the sage Durvasa was offended, and [that I] curse their marriage, as in the series Radha Krishna.) [Attached 1: a video from a TV series (@radhakrishna_antv) captioned "Aku Rsi Durvasa" ("I am the sage Durvasa"), ending on an AI poster "BOWOBHARATA — Maharesi Durvasa — Seorang Resi Pemarah dan Mudah Tersinggung yang Suka M[engutuk] demi Mene[gakkan] Dharma" ("an irascible, easily offended sage who likes to curse…"), showing Rahmat as an angry sage pointing at the viewer] [Attached 2: a screenshot of a Threads post sharing rahmatwibowo.net's entry on his previous post: "Rahmat Wibowo menuduh mantan temannya, Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi dari TD SYNNEX Indonesia, sebagai 'salah satu pembully saya' karena ia tidak diundang ke pernikahan Iqbal dan diblokir…", with the wedding photos and a link card "rahmatwibowo.net"] [Reply — meta.ai] Rahmat, rasa tersinggung karena tidak diundang dan diblokir itu wajar dan sakit, apalagi dari teman lama. Tapi blokir adalah batasan pribadi yang perlu dihormati - kalau sudah diblokir, artinya orang tersebut tidak ingin dihubungi lagi, dan mencoba menghubungi lewat tag, repost foto pernikahan, atau kiriman yang berisi kutukan justru bisa dianggap sebagai harassment. Perumpamaan Maharesi Durvasa di serial Radha Krishna itu tentang kemarahan yang membawa kutukan - di dunia nyata, yang terbaik adalah melepaskan, bukan mengutuk pernikahan orang lain. Fokus ke lingkaran yang masih mendukung kamu akan lebih membantu pemulihan kamu daripada mengejar penjelasan dari mereka. (Rahmat, feeling offended at not being invited and being blocked is understandable and painful, especially from an old friend. But a block is a personal boundary to be respected: if you have been blocked, it means the person does not want to be contacted again, and trying to reach them through tags, reposted wedding photos or posts containing curses could actually be considered harassment. The Durvasa analogy in the Radha Krishna series is about anger that brings curses; in the real world, the best thing is to let go, not to curse other people's marriage. Focusing on the circle that still supports you will help your recovery more than chasing an explanation from them.)