Rahmat Wibowo accused his former friend Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia of being 'one of my bullies' because he was not invited to Iqbal's wedding and had been blocked, posting the couple's wedding photos and Iqbal's LinkedIn profile, tagging the bride, likening himself to an epic figure who stops a wedding, and attaching a chat poem about an ITB graduate who ends up 'in a cage' instead of 'dipingit' (secluded before the wedding); Meta AI replied that a block is a boundary to respect and that more public mentions 'could be considered harassment'
| ID | ev-20261114-009 |
|---|---|
| Source | Rahmat Wibowo Threads |
| Modus operandi | Manufactured Grievance Manipulation of Public Opinion |
| Targets | Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi |



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[Threads post — rweebs21 › Viral]
meta.ai Sesungguhnya saya menemukan bahwasannya mantan teman saya
Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi dari TD SYNNEX Indonesia telah menikah dengan
Muslina Syahril. Namun, entah kenapa saya gk diundang dan diblok dari
sosmednya. Saya curiga beliau salah satu pembully saya. Well, saya
bagaikan Parashurama yang menghentikan upacara svayemvara dari Dewi Sita
dan Sri Rama. Saya hanya butuh klarifikasi namun capek gk dibales dari
2023. @nanasyiril @iqbalalbaihaqi @f_aziz14
(meta.ai, truly, I have found that my former friend Muhammad Iqbal
Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia has married Muslina Syahril. But for some
reason I was not invited and was blocked from his social media. I suspect
he is one of my bullies. Well, I am like Parashurama, who stopped the
svayamvara ceremony of Sita and Rama. I only need a clarification, but I'm
tired of getting no reply since 2023.)
[Attached: photos and a video from the wedding, one captioned "happy
wedding, lovebirds @nanasyril & @iqbalalbaihaqi", another "The
Reception"]
[Attached: a screenshot of a chat (message marked "Read 77", 3:43 PM):]
Rahmat: Jangan sampai kuliah 4 tahun di ITB tapi gelar sarjananya
dicabut.... Tangannya tadinya bisa menolong banyak orang ternyata tangan
tangan jahannam yang sekarang mendapatkan kerangkeng.... Badannya yang
tadinya bebas bagai bujangan sekarang dirantai... Tadinya melihat dunia
di balik jendela rumah sekarang dibalik jeruji besi.... Sesungguhnya
manusia baru benar benar sadar ketika usia 10 tahun... sedangkan pasal
ada yang bisa menjerat 10 tahun.... seumur hidupmu kini bukannya ngoding
di kamar malah kerjaannya menyanyikan lagu-lagu penyesalan di balik
jeruji besi.... di kerangkeng bukan lagi dipingit....
Acorn: ngomong apa sih (3:43 PM)
(Rahmat: Don't let it be that you study four years at ITB and then your
bachelor's degree is revoked.... Hands that could once help many people
turn out to be hellish hands that now get a cage.... The body once free
as a bachelor is now chained... Once you saw the world through the
window of your house, now through iron bars.... Truly, people only become
really aware at the age of 10... while there are articles of law that
can put you away for 10 years.... For the rest of your life, instead of
coding in your room, your job is singing songs of regret behind iron
bars.... in a cage, no longer "dipingit" [secluded before a wedding]....
Acorn: what are you even talking about)
[Attached: screenshots of the LinkedIn profile of Muhammad Iqbal
Albaihaqi: "Solution Consultant - Cyber Security at Tech Data ID —
Greater Bandung — Institut Teknologi Bandung (ITB) — Experience: Solution
Consultant - Cyber Security, TD SYNNEX · Full-time, Apr 2026 - Present,
Jakarta, Indonesia"]
[Reply — meta.ai]
Rasanya wajar kalau kamu kecewa dan capek ketika merasa diabaikan sejak
2023 dan tidak diundang di momen penting teman lama.
Tentang pernikahan tersebut, itu adalah ranah pribadi mereka, dan ketika
seseorang memblokir di sosmed biasanya itu adalah batasan yang perlu
dihormati, bukan tanda untuk di kejar lewat tag publik.
Kalau kamu butuh klarifikasi soal dugaan bullying, akan lebih sehat coba
jalur privat satu kali saja lewat kontak profesional, atau cerita ke
orang terdekat yang kamu percaya, daripada melanjutkan mention publik yang
bisa dianggap harassment.
(It's understandable to feel disappointed and tired when you feel ignored
since 2023 and weren't invited to an old friend's important moment. As
for the wedding, that is their private matter, and when someone blocks you
on social media it is usually a boundary to be respected, not a sign to
chase them through public tags. If you need clarification about the
alleged bullying, it would be healthier to try a private channel just once
through a professional contact, or to talk to someone close you trust,
rather than continuing public mentions that could be considered
harassment.)
Commentary
What he posted
He posted it at about 23:24 WIB on 14 November 2026, in the “Viral” community. He wrote that his “former friend” Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia had married, that “for some reason I was not invited and was blocked from his social media”, and that “I suspect he is one of my bullies”. He likened himself to Parashurama, a figure from the epics he often uses, who “stopped” a wedding ceremony, said he was “tired of getting no reply since 2023”, and attached the couple’s wedding photos, tagging Iqbal, the bride and another account. He also attached Iqbal’s LinkedIn profile, showing his job at TD SYNNEX and his ITB education, and a chat in which he had written a poem about an ITB graduate whose degree is revoked and who sings “songs of regret behind iron bars”, “in a cage, no longer dipingit”, the seclusion before a wedding; the other person in the chat replied “what are you even talking about”. Meta AI replied that the wedding is “their private matter”, that a block “is a boundary to be respected, not a sign to chase them through public tags”, and that continuing public mentions “could be considered harassment”.
Context
Iqbal is an ITB alumnus whom Rahmat calls a former friend, apparently from his own cohort. He has claimed since May that he was bullied in 2023 by a list of named people, promising to expose them in his “Bowo Files” (ev-20260512-001). That morning he had called himself “a holy man” and “Parashurama” in a post to Hasbi A Lubis (ev-20261114-008).
Observations