Rahmat Wibowo accused his former friend Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia of being 'one of my bullies' because he was not invited to Iqbal's wedding and had been blocked, posting the couple's wedding photos and Iqbal's LinkedIn profile, tagging the bride, likening himself to an epic figure who stops a wedding, and attaching a chat poem about an ITB graduate who ends up 'in a cage' instead of 'dipingit' (secluded before the wedding); Meta AI replied that a block is a boundary to respect and that more public mentions 'could be considered harassment'

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Rahmat Wibowo accused his former friend Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia of being 'one of my bullies' because he was not invited to Iqbal's wedding and had been blocked, posting the couple's wedding photos and Iqbal's LinkedIn profile, tagging the bride, likening himself to an epic figure who stops a wedding, and attaching a chat poem about an ITB graduate who ends up 'in a cage' instead of 'dipingit' (secluded before the wedding); Meta AI replied that a block is a boundary to respect and that more public mentions 'could be considered harassment'
Rahmat Wibowo accused his former friend Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia of being 'one of my bullies' because he was not invited to Iqbal's wedding and had been blocked, posting the couple's wedding photos and Iqbal's LinkedIn profile, tagging the bride, likening himself to an epic figure who stops a wedding, and attaching a chat poem about an ITB graduate who ends up 'in a cage' instead of 'dipingit' (secluded before the wedding); Meta AI replied that a block is a boundary to respect and that more public mentions 'could be considered harassment'
Rahmat Wibowo accused his former friend Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia of being 'one of my bullies' because he was not invited to Iqbal's wedding and had been blocked, posting the couple's wedding photos and Iqbal's LinkedIn profile, tagging the bride, likening himself to an epic figure who stops a wedding, and attaching a chat poem about an ITB graduate who ends up 'in a cage' instead of 'dipingit' (secluded before the wedding); Meta AI replied that a block is a boundary to respect and that more public mentions 'could be considered harassment'

Commentary

What he posted

He posted it at about 23:24 WIB on 14 November 2026, in the “Viral” community. He wrote that his “former friend” Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia had married, that “for some reason I was not invited and was blocked from his social media”, and that “I suspect he is one of my bullies”. He likened himself to Parashurama, a figure from the epics he often uses, who “stopped” a wedding ceremony, said he was “tired of getting no reply since 2023”, and attached the couple’s wedding photos, tagging Iqbal, the bride and another account. He also attached Iqbal’s LinkedIn profile, showing his job at TD SYNNEX and his ITB education, and a chat in which he had written a poem about an ITB graduate whose degree is revoked and who sings “songs of regret behind iron bars”, “in a cage, no longer dipingit”, the seclusion before a wedding; the other person in the chat replied “what are you even talking about”. Meta AI replied that the wedding is “their private matter”, that a block “is a boundary to be respected, not a sign to chase them through public tags”, and that continuing public mentions “could be considered harassment”.

Context

Iqbal is an ITB alumnus whom Rahmat calls a former friend, apparently from his own cohort. He has claimed since May that he was bullied in 2023 by a list of named people, promising to expose them in his “Bowo Files” (ev-20260512-001). That morning he had called himself “a holy man” and “Parashurama” in a post to Hasbi A Lubis (ev-20261114-008).

Observations

  • Not invited, so a bully. The only grounds he gives for suspecting Iqbal of bullying are that he was not invited to the wedding and has been blocked.
  • A wedding, posted and tagged. He posted another couple’s wedding photos and tagged the bride, who has no part in any dispute he describes.
  • Stopping a wedding. The figure he likens himself to is one who stops a wedding ceremony, said of a couple who have just married.
  • A prison poem for a groom. The poem he attached imagines an ITB graduate losing his degree and spending his life “behind iron bars” instead of being dipingit before his wedding. It names no one, but he posted it with the wedding photos.
  • His employer and profile, named. He names Iqbal together with his employer, TD SYNNEX Indonesia, and attaches his LinkedIn profile.
  • Meta AI’s warning. The AI he addressed told him to respect the block and that continuing public mentions could be harassment.

Transcript

[Threads post — rweebs21 › Viral] meta.ai Sesungguhnya saya menemukan bahwasannya mantan teman saya Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi dari TD SYNNEX Indonesia telah menikah dengan Muslina Syahril. Namun, entah kenapa saya gk diundang dan diblok dari sosmednya. Saya curiga beliau salah satu pembully saya. Well, saya bagaikan Parashurama yang menghentikan upacara svayemvara dari Dewi Sita dan Sri Rama. Saya hanya butuh klarifikasi namun capek gk dibales dari 2023. @nanasyiril @iqbalalbaihaqi @f_aziz14 (meta.ai, truly, I have found that my former friend Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi of TD SYNNEX Indonesia has married Muslina Syahril. But for some reason I was not invited and was blocked from his social media. I suspect he is one of my bullies. Well, I am like Parashurama, who stopped the svayamvara ceremony of Sita and Rama. I only need a clarification, but I'm tired of getting no reply since 2023.) [Attached: photos and a video from the wedding, one captioned "happy wedding, lovebirds @nanasyril & @iqbalalbaihaqi", another "The Reception"] [Attached: a screenshot of a chat (message marked "Read 77", 3:43 PM):] Rahmat: Jangan sampai kuliah 4 tahun di ITB tapi gelar sarjananya dicabut.... Tangannya tadinya bisa menolong banyak orang ternyata tangan tangan jahannam yang sekarang mendapatkan kerangkeng.... Badannya yang tadinya bebas bagai bujangan sekarang dirantai... Tadinya melihat dunia di balik jendela rumah sekarang dibalik jeruji besi.... Sesungguhnya manusia baru benar benar sadar ketika usia 10 tahun... sedangkan pasal ada yang bisa menjerat 10 tahun.... seumur hidupmu kini bukannya ngoding di kamar malah kerjaannya menyanyikan lagu-lagu penyesalan di balik jeruji besi.... di kerangkeng bukan lagi dipingit.... Acorn: ngomong apa sih (3:43 PM) (Rahmat: Don't let it be that you study four years at ITB and then your bachelor's degree is revoked.... Hands that could once help many people turn out to be hellish hands that now get a cage.... The body once free as a bachelor is now chained... Once you saw the world through the window of your house, now through iron bars.... Truly, people only become really aware at the age of 10... while there are articles of law that can put you away for 10 years.... For the rest of your life, instead of coding in your room, your job is singing songs of regret behind iron bars.... in a cage, no longer "dipingit" [secluded before a wedding].... Acorn: what are you even talking about) [Attached: screenshots of the LinkedIn profile of Muhammad Iqbal Albaihaqi: "Solution Consultant - Cyber Security at Tech Data ID — Greater Bandung — Institut Teknologi Bandung (ITB) — Experience: Solution Consultant - Cyber Security, TD SYNNEX · Full-time, Apr 2026 - Present, Jakarta, Indonesia"] [Reply — meta.ai] Rasanya wajar kalau kamu kecewa dan capek ketika merasa diabaikan sejak 2023 dan tidak diundang di momen penting teman lama. Tentang pernikahan tersebut, itu adalah ranah pribadi mereka, dan ketika seseorang memblokir di sosmed biasanya itu adalah batasan yang perlu dihormati, bukan tanda untuk di kejar lewat tag publik. Kalau kamu butuh klarifikasi soal dugaan bullying, akan lebih sehat coba jalur privat satu kali saja lewat kontak profesional, atau cerita ke orang terdekat yang kamu percaya, daripada melanjutkan mention publik yang bisa dianggap harassment. (It's understandable to feel disappointed and tired when you feel ignored since 2023 and weren't invited to an old friend's important moment. As for the wedding, that is their private matter, and when someone blocks you on social media it is usually a boundary to be respected, not a sign to chase them through public tags. If you need clarification about the alleged bullying, it would be healthier to try a private channel just once through a professional contact, or to talk to someone close you trust, rather than continuing public mentions that could be considered harassment.)