Rahmat Wibowo, in a hapless attempt to find love under his '#OpenToDate' profile picture, posted in Dating Threads asking whether dating a lawyer means being served a somasi for breach of contract after a breakup, advertised his 'Somasi as a Service' in the same breath, joked that he could report a partner to the police for insulting him during a quarrel, and mass-tagged PERADI and three other accounts.

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Rahmat Wibowo, in a hapless attempt to find love under his '#OpenToDate' profile picture, posted in Dating Threads asking whether dating a lawyer means being served a somasi for breach of contract after a breakup, advertised his 'Somasi as a Service' in the same breath, joked that he could report a partner to the police for insulting him during a quarrel, and mass-tagged PERADI and three other accounts.

Commentary

What he posted

He posted it at about 22:10 WIB on 10 November 2026, in the “Dating Threads” community. He asked whether dating a lawyer means being served a somasi for breach of contract after a breakup, and whether a “pre-dating agreement” is needed, signing off as “Rahmat Wibowo, creator of Somasi as a Service, legal.infraloka.com”. He added that if he were insulted to his face during a fight, he could report the person to the police under Article 436 of the Criminal Code, and attached a photo of the article.

Context

He posted it at the end of a day spent on lawyer Rama Abdurachman, to whom he had sent a Rp533 million legal notice that morning and about whom he had posted at least eight times (ev-20261110-001, ev-20261110-002). Two days earlier he had declared that people whose names bring up his “#OpenToDate” photo on Google are “problematic” (ev-20261108-011).

Observations

  • Romance through the Criminal Code. In a community for dating, his contribution is to imagine suing a partner after a breakup and reporting a partner to the police for an insult during a quarrel.
  • An advert, again. The post doubles as an advertisement for his legal-notice service.
  • The article he cites. Article 436 covers “minor insult” made in public or to someone’s face, the same provision he cites in his legal notices.
  • Tags. PERADI and three other accounts, in a post about dating.

Transcript

[Threads post — rweebs21 › Dating Threads] apakah kalo pacaran sama lawyer nanti kalo putus bakal disomasi untuk wanprestasi buat gugatan kerugian selama menjalani proses pacaran?? Apakah harus ada perjanjian pra-pacaran juga?? Dari Rahmat Wibowo pembuat Somasi as a Service legal.infraloka.com Kalo saya kesel sih kalo bertengkar ada penghinaan langsung ke saya bisa saya laporin polisi juga wkwkw pake pasal 436 uu no 1 tahun 2023. Kan dimuka langsung masuk delik. bener kan meta.ai @dpnperadi @pramoctavy @firufd @eno_bening (If you date a lawyer, will you be served a somasi for breach of contract after a breakup, to sue for the losses suffered while dating?? Do you need a pre-dating agreement too?? From Rahmat Wibowo, creator of Somasi as a Service, legal.infraloka.com. If I got annoyed during a fight and was insulted to my face, I could report them to the police too, lol, under Article 436 of Law No. 1 of 2023. Insulting someone to their face is an offence, right? Right, meta.ai?) [Attached: a photo of a page of the Criminal Code showing Article 435 (on slander and court decisions) and Article 436, "Penghinaan Ringan" (minor insult): insult that is not defamation, made in public or to the person's face, is punishable by up to six months in prison or a category II fine]