Rahmat Wibowo accused Fransiskus Febryan Suryawan, Febrico Jonata, and Samsung R&D Institute Indonesia of coordinated digital harassment via an 'add and kick' WhatsApp tactic, framing it as illegal workplace bullying and vowing to pursue police reports and labor dispute proceedings.
| ID | ev-20260728-007 |
|---|---|
| Source | Infraloka Blog |
| Targets | Fransiskus Febryan Suryawan |

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DIGITAL HARASSMENT
WORKPLACE BULLYING
PROFESSIONALINTEGRITY UUITE
The "Add and Kick"
Playbook: When
Workplace Bullying
Goes Digital: Study
Case of Fransiskus
Febryan Suryawan
And Samsung R&D
Institute Indonesia
Rahmat Wibowo - June1,2026
‘The “Add and Kick”
Playbook: When
Workplace Bullying Goes
Digital: Study case of
kus Febryan
Suryawan and Samsung
RED Institute Indonesia
There is anew trend circulating among
people who have unresolved grievances
with others. It does not involve
confrontation. It involves a WhatsApp
group.
Here is how the tactic works: they add
you toa group you never asked to join,
sometimes a group with a provocative or
dismissive name, and then within
seconds or minutes, they remove you. No
message. No context, Just the cold
notification staring back at you.
indomie tapi pizza
Thursday
Febrico Jonata added you
@ Group info
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Iknow this because it happened tome.
Again.
Whats the "Add and Kick"
Tactic?
The mechanics are simple. The
psychology behind itis not.
Adding someone to a group signals to
every other member: "Look, we have
power over this person's notifications,
their attention, their presence."Then
removing them immediately amplifies the
message: "And we can erase them too."
‘isa coordinated at of seca humiliation dresed up as a technical
‘action. Because it happens inside an app, the perpetrators el insulated
From accountabi
Afterall, what law did they break? They
just pressed a button, right?
Wrong.
This Is Not Harmless. This Is
Harassment.
Under Indonesian law, digital harassment
is not a grey area.
The key wordis pattern. One incidentis
easy to dismiss. Arepeated, coordinated
campaign of digital provocationis
something else entirely.
And document everything.
Why Do They Do This?
Because they have no real argumentleft.
When someone cannot win on merit,
when they cannot defend their past
actions against you in any legitimate
forum, they resort to theater. The "add
and kick" moveis theater. Itis meant to
signal to mutual contacts that you are
someone to be mocked, discarded,
socially cancelled,
but heres hat they mt understand: every time they do thls they are
ot diminishing me. ‘Thes are iiidng my evidence file
AMessage to Anyone Watching
This Happen
If you are a mutual contact, a colleague, a
former coworker who witnessed this or
was presentin that group when it
happened: younow have a choice
Silence is a vote for the bully.
Ifyou believe in professional integrity, if
you believe that workplaces and social
circles should be places of dignity, then
do not laugh at this. Do not scroll past it.
Name what itis.
AMessageto the People Who Did
This
| want you to understand something
clearly.
lam not embarrassed. | am not rattled. |
am not going to reach out to ask why, to
beg for inclusion, or to pretend this did
not happen.
What I will do is continue building,
continue documenting, and continue
speaking publicly about the tactics used
by people who lack the courage to
engage honestly.
You added me toa group called
"indomie tapi pizza" and removed me
within moments. Thatis the level of
sophistication of your retaliation
strategy.
Ihave labor dispute proceedings, formal
police reports at Bareskrim, anda public
record of everything that led to this
moment.
You chose theater. lam choosing the
record.
To Every Professional Reading
This
If youare ever targeted by coordinated
digital harassment, from "add and kick"
games to smear campaigns, know this
Document every incident with
timestamps
Screenshot every notification and note
who orchestrated it
File formal reports when pattems emerge
Speak publicly when itis safe and
strategic todo so
Silence protects abusers. Visibility
changes the calculus, The goalisnot
revenge. The goalis accountability. And
accountability starts with refusing to
pretend that what happened was normal
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lam building a company. lam pursuing
justice through every legitimate channel
available to me. |am producing,
publishing, and moving forward.
What they are doingis pressing buttons
onaphone and hoping | will crumble. Iwill
not.
The recordis public. The recordis
permanent. And the record will outlast all
of this.
Rahmat Wibowo.
Co-Founder & CEO — Infraloka (PT.
Infrastruktur Digital Nusantara)
SRE — Pertamina Marine Solution
Rahmatan lil Alamin.
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